As important as good estate planning is, equally important is healthy relationships between the people involved in these significant life transitions. Having the assistance of a professional counselor can help the person aging to adjust to changes in his or her life. Counseling can help a person, thrust into the role of caregiver, to adjust to that role. Team counseling offers an opportunity for loved ones to learn to understand each other and appreciate that each of them is experience dramatic change. Counseling can help control the anxiety and stress that goes hand in hard with these transitions.
I would be pleased to refer you to someone who can assist you or your loved ones.